{"id":2931,"date":"2014-07-25T02:08:44","date_gmt":"2014-07-25T06:08:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/armenyl.com\/?p=2931"},"modified":"2014-07-26T14:11:21","modified_gmt":"2014-07-26T18:11:21","slug":"saving-your-best","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/2014\/07\/25\/saving-your-best\/","title":{"rendered":"Savings"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"color: #e9b29b;\">Why do I save? The list goes on, and against your list I am sure we could have a thousand and one matches. But I am not talking about those kinds of savings; the ones that make us think of piggy banks, ATMs, and dollar signs.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #e9b29b;\">I watched my cousin as she scribbled part lies part truths on her New Year\u2019s Resolutions list. Somewhere tucked between the lies, she had \u201cCarpe diem\u201d faintly written, as if she was ready to argue that it was never there if someone ever called her on it.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #e9b29b;\">&#8220;Are you still thinking about this one? &#8221; I teased.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #e9b29b;\">She laughed. \u201cDon\u2019t you think it is rather ironic that it lies on a list of future plans?\u201d<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #e9b29b;\">&#8220;Well\u2026&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #e9b29b;\">&#8220;Man!&#8221; she interrupted. &#8220;I am tired of thinking, I am tired of planning, and I am tired of holding back&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #e9b29b;\">There, within her rant, birth in my thoughts, the \u201cto be or not to be\u201d of saving the best for last. Even though I badly wanted to take a cheap shot at her frustrations with \u201cthinking,\u201d My thoughts were so occupied with her last point, that the goof in me remained incarcerated.<\/p>\n<div id='gallery-1' class='gallery galleryid-2931 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/?attachment_id=2927'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Saving-Your-Best-by-Armenyl-6-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Saving-Your-Best-by-Armenyl-6-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Saving-Your-Best-by-Armenyl-6-75x75.jpg 75w, https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Saving-Your-Best-by-Armenyl-6-293x293.jpg 293w, 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https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Saving-Your-Best-by-Armenyl-3-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<p style=\"color: #e9b29b;\">No one knows how to stash secret weapons under a\u00a0pillow like I do. I\u2019ve never seen anything wrong with that. What is wrong with saving the best for last? Probably nothing other than the fact that most of us are waiting for that non-existent right moment. That moment that is preceded with a zillion and one \u201cnot yets.\u201d So, what do we do? We tease with mediocrity, over and over again, until our secret weapon is as good as bad and all we are left to name ourselves after is the run-of-the-mill title we very well called\u00a0<em>our own<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #e9b29b;\">&#8220;Why do I save?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #e9b29b;\">&#8220;Yes, why do you save?&#8221; I reiterated<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #e9b29b;\">&#8220;I don\u2019t know! What if people don\u2019t like what I have to offer? What if I am not good enough? What if I&#8217;m not ready?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #e9b29b;\">&#8220;You are scared of failure?&#8221; I questioned.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #e9b29b;\">&#8220;There are days I give it my all, I work hard, I\u2026&#8221; she paused, &#8220;I don\u2019t hold back! and I don\u2019t even get a second look! I have to be content with my &#8216;it\u2019s okay&#8217;s &#8220;<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #e9b29b;\">I learned that it is the only way you get better. If your hands are already full from saving your best, there\u2019s no way you can start working on the next best thing. \u00a0There\u2019s an audience out there waiting for you, but you first have to show up. Show you! And all of you! You cannot stress about perfection, but you can certainly leave room for it. That is the room you go to after your work has been criticized. The room you go to\u00a0fix\u00a0your mistakes and refine your best. Be excited to exhaust all your\u00a0capabilities\u00a0and skills knowing very well that the only way it will finally &amp; actually be exhausted is when you are dead and gone.\u00a0Remember the brevity of human life and do everything like it is your last. Give your all! Tell that person that you love them already! Start working on that business plan today. Make the calls! Knock the doors. Do not settle with failure; instead, get your critics back by making\u00a0improvements. Iron out those kinks. Tighten those screws.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #e9b29b;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/armenyl.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Saving-Your-Best-by-Armenyl-4.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-2925\" src=\"https:\/\/armenyl.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Saving-Your-Best-by-Armenyl-4-1024x682.jpg\" alt=\"Saving Your Best by Armenyl-4\" width=\"750\" height=\"499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Saving-Your-Best-by-Armenyl-4-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Saving-Your-Best-by-Armenyl-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Saving-Your-Best-by-Armenyl-4-770x513.jpg 770w, https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Saving-Your-Best-by-Armenyl-4-100x66.jpg 100w, https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Saving-Your-Best-by-Armenyl-4-370x247.jpg 370w, https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Saving-Your-Best-by-Armenyl-4-1155x770.jpg 1155w, https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Saving-Your-Best-by-Armenyl-4-293x195.jpg 293w, https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Saving-Your-Best-by-Armenyl-4.jpg 1400w, https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Saving-Your-Best-by-Armenyl-4-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Saving-Your-Best-by-Armenyl-4-600x400.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h1 style=\"color: #e9b29b; text-align: center;\">Carpe Diem!<\/h1>\n<h1 style=\"color: #e9b29b; text-align: center;\">Love, \u00a0Armenyl<\/h1>\n<h1 style=\"color: #e9b29b; text-align: center;\"><\/h1>\n<p style=\"color: #e9b29b; text-align: left;\"><em>I hope this message inspires you to live out your dreams! I have to remind myself sometimes: God isn&#8217;t finished with you yet. Tell yourself, &#8220;As long as I am alive, I am going to keep growing&#8221; I mean think about it, you kinda don&#8217;t have a choice there&#8230; \ud83d\ude09<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #e9b29b; text-align: left;\"><strong>Spread the word! &lt;3<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You are probably sitting on a pot of gold, but it&#8217;s not the kind you are thinking of. I truly hope I inspire you with this little message. It&#8217;s something I had to teach myself and something I still have to remind myself to do.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2966,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[49,4,102,323,75],"tags":[397,363,395,710,396],"class_list":["post-2931","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-feature","category-inspiration","category-love-armenyl","category-moments-photography","category-petit-mot","tag-armenyl","tag-flowers","tag-gold","tag-inspiration","tag-saving-the-best-for-last"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2931","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2931"}],"version-history":[{"count":41,"href":"https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2931\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2974,"href":"https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2931\/revisions\/2974"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2966"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2931"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2931"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/armenyl.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2931"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}